Friday, May 22, 2015

WHAT'S IN YOUR BACKPACK?

And he looks like he's headed to shop for more!

The premise is this: You are going on a rocket ship to somewhere in another galaxy. You will be provided with whatever you need in the way of food and clothing. You may bring along only ten items and those must fit in the backpack provided.

I first thought about this trip in some random book of science fiction I read in my early twenties. This was way before the computer age. At that time I had relatively few possessions. I think I filled my backpack with some of my favorite books, a scarf I loved and still have today, what else? I don’t remember. What I do remember is the “only ten items”. I think the backpack bit has added itself to my memory: we weren‘t really using backpacks in the 60’s. Oh yes – I do remember that it was important to me to take my eyeglasses. It’s still important to me. I have to see!

Think about it: what material objects are important to you? What would you bring? Favorite books, family pictures, the first thing you bought with your own money, your wedding ring? Would you bring your laptop computer and all you’ve saved on it? Would the battery last? Maybe electronic things wouldn’t be suitable to bring along.



The characters in most historic fiction, which usually reflects historic fact, had few possessions unless they were royalty and had trunks full of stuff. If disaster struck and they lost everything, they lost little. Or it seems that way in the books. Many had just the clothes on their backs, with maybe an extra tunic or dress for festive days, and what could fit in a purse or scrip. Folks had little in the way of material things to pass on to their children.

Though there are societies in this modern world that still live so simply, it is simple to say that our own times and needs have changed. Indeed they have, and for the better, but today we seem to have too much. That backpack has to get bigger. Our parents passed on just a few precious things to us, and we have those things and even more to pass on in turn to our own children. Is it all stuff really that important? Our own stuff has accumulated over the years, and the kids are acquiring stuff every day.  Eventually, their stuff will have stuff. Perhaps we should pass on the problem by giving them some of our stuff now, before we are possessed by our possessions.

While all of us do have some very nice things, we know that we could very easily do without most of them. We can look around our homes and do some creative triage: what can go to make our lives simpler, and what is important enough to fit in that “backpack”. You might want to document those important items on a bequest list. Let the future recipients know who gets what, the history of the items, and why they are especially important to you.




In centuries gone by, what most people could hope to pass on was a set of traditions and moral codes and, for the lucky ones, a home place and the knowledge of family history. This is as important to families today as it was then. What’s in your backpack? Think about it.




Friday, May 15, 2015

THE ROYAL GREENWICH OBSERVATORY - GMT


One of my favorite resources, The Writer’s Almanac, said that on May 4th, in 1675, 340 years ago, King Charles II commissioned the Royal Greenwich ObservatoryTaking river transportation along the wonderfully interesting Thames River way from Westminster to Greenwich, I’ve been to the observatory - eons ago! I had this post labelled for a posting on that day, but I put off going to the photo scrapbook to dig out the appropriate pictures. This morning I finally got to it. Here’s one of our daughter, Alice (From Our Palace) standing in two time zones. 

That's Frank back there - studying, studying, always studying.

The Royal Greenwich Observatory is the place of the Prime Meridian, the demarcation of the Eastern and Western hemispheres. It is the place of Greenwich Mean Time, hour zero, the creation of which standardized time throughout the world.

The Observatory is a marvelous museum of horological wonders, sitting on a hill in a beautiful building designed by Christopher Wren. Though it’s no longer a working observatory, because of the light pollution from London, it is still a museum and planetarium. The time pieces and astronomical equipment on display include some of the ‘marine timekeepers’ John Harrison invented to solve the problem of longitude and timekeeping on moving ships. Frank, as you can imagine, was fascinated. 



I’ve stood on the Prime Meridian, had my picture taken of course, though you won't see it here, and had a foot in each hemisphere. I didn’t feel a thing. It’s the same with standing at Four Corners out west, or on the U.S.-Canada border: a fun thing to have added to your life list. It’s like being on a mountain top in New York State, looking over into Vermont and Massachusetts: it’s not ‘here’, it’s ‘there’, and it’s notable and different. 





Friday, May 8, 2015

SPRING CLEANING AND BEYOND

I wrote this piece for our community magazine but they had many other pieces, including another of mine, to fit into the issue. Not being one to look a gift horse in the mouth, I will use it today. I want you to know that my halo isn't really on all that tight - I've not yet tackled many of the chores (well, hardly any!). But I do talk a great Martha Stewart-ish line. It's an instance of do as I say, not as I do. 




Spring has sprung
And grass is green.
I guess it’s time
I finally clean.


Air Out, Clean and Inspect

Spring cleaning time is upon us. Now that the temperatures are mild and the windows wide open, it’s time to handle jobs like touch-up painting, laundering slipcovers, bedspreads, and curtains, and doing a cleaning cycle with white vinegar in your clothes and dish washers. The dryer hose could be de-linted too. It’s time to clean out the grill and make sure that it and all the outdoor furniture are ready for warm weather living.

Our homes have been closed up for months. Now is the time to remove all the dust and grease and greasy dust that has built up on knickknacks, books, and pictures throughout the house, and on anything sitting or hanging in the open in the kitchen. By now you know the right way to clean them, so do it.

If you didn’t get to it in March, the start of May is a good time to check the batteries in your carbon monoxide and smoke detectors, and in your flashlights, and to check your fire extinguishers. The days when our clocks Spring Ahead and Fall Back have become the days we’re now told to remember to do these checks, but the beginning of this month will do as well. It might also be a good time, before the summer rush, to have your air conditioning system checked and serviced. This goes for your irrigation system too.




Control the Chaos

Many of these May jobs can be put on a list and done bit by bit. In between times, or if you finish early, it might be time for some creative culling.

Is your garage is in a state of barely controlled chaos? This is a good time to back out the car, pull everything away from the walls, get some storage shelves and containers if you need them, and begin to get a handle on your stuff. As you investigate each item and the contents of every box, ask yourself these questions:
   When was the last time I used this?
   Does it still work? 
   Do I really need this? Do I really need this many?
   Does it have sentimental value? Would the kids like to have it?
   Can I cut down on all these holiday decorations?
   Can I donate it somewhere? Can I sell it?
   If I toss it now could I replace it for under $5 or borrow it if I need to?
   When was the last time I used this? (Yes, again!)

Do the tried and true three-part triage on your stuff:
   Stuff you really need to keep
   Stuff you can donate or sell
   Stuff you should toss

If you have things that you’d really like to have gone but are immensely or even mildly sentimental, take a few pictures of them and keep the pictures instead of the stuff. Just think of all the space you’ll save and the future headaches you’ll avoid when you get rid of all that memory clutter.
 
This is a good time of year to do some clothes closet cleaning, and kitchen closet culling too. The list of questions and the method of disposal is exactly the same as for the stuff in the garage. And, if you still have May time on your hands, clean out your files. Still have your tax records for the last umpteen years? Look up a good records retention schedule and lighten your paper burden.



Think Outside of the Box

It’s rare for or homeowners to dust off their hands and say, “There! Our home is complete!” There’s always something that can be done to make our spaces better, more efficient, more comfortable or just more visually appealing. With that in mind, you might want to take a look around and see how you can rearrange things.

Instead of all those framed family photos sitting around on every surface, think about arranging them on a photo wall. Use the frames as they are, or invest in coordinated frames from Hobby Lobby or Michael’s. If not this, perhaps you’d want to make a special album of all these special photos. Just think of all the dusting time you’ll save.

Do other little things to change the household scenery: trade the toss pillows in the bedroom with those in the living room, put your Grandmother’s afghan over the arm of an easy chair, or curate and cull the knickknacks. Check your cabinets for stored items that might be decorative. Bring out a pretty pitcher, bowl, or tea cup, even a great sports trophy, to put on a table top or prominent shelf. Buy something that won’t break the bank but will change the scenery: perhaps a new set of towels or sheets, a small framed artwork or pottery piece from one of the Sun City craft groups, perhaps some fresh flowers to brighten your rooms.

You probably won’t need to do every job mentioned here, but be honest with yourself and really do a thorough job on what you do have to do. It’s going to be a busy month, what with all the other things going on in your life and in the world, but you will be pleased with your progress. By Memorial Day you should be able to sit back, enjoy the fruits of your labor, and have a wonderful summer.






Wednesday, May 6, 2015

MAY


MAY

In May I truly think it best
to be a robin lightly dressed
concocting soup inside my nest.
Mix it once
mix it twice
mix that chicken soup with rice.

                                            by Maurice Sendak


No, I didn't forget my chicken soup with rice. Early in the May 1st morning I did post about the marvelous month of May, but later in the day I otherwise occupied. I was delightedly visiting with the daughter of my heart. We had a ladies luncheon to attend too, so I was busy, busy, busy. Happy, happy, happy. 

Friday, May 1, 2015

THE MARVELOUS MONTH OF MAY


Hurrah! Hooray! The First of May – You all know what starts today!

Under the category Two Birds With One Stone, today I am reusing the piece I wrote for this month’s issue of our community magazine Living @ Sun City Carolina Lakes. May was always one of my favorite months – the other being November, my birthday month – and I was delighted to celebrate it in print.



THE MARVELOUS MONTH OF MAY

Who doesn’t love the month of May?
Sports fans can look forward to the NBA Finals, the Indianapolis 500, the Formula 1 Grand Prix in Monaco, the Kentucky Derby and the Preakness Stakes, and the French Open in tennis. While the hockey season is almost over, Major League Baseball is in full swing.

Who doesn’t love the month of May?
While the school-age children are anticipating the end of their year in class, even with finals beforehand, children of all ages are thinking what to get Mom for Mother’s Day. Everyone is counting down to Memorial Day and the semi-official start of summer.

Who doesn’t love the month of May?
There is something for everyone to celebrate:
Allergy/Asthma Awareness Month
Arthritis Month
Better Sleep Month
Better Speech and Hearing Month
Correct Posture Month
Europe Day
Foot Health Month
Indian Heritage Month (observed in Guyana, Suriname,
        Trinidad and Tobago, and most Caribbean island-nations)
Jewish American Heritage Month
Labor History Month
Mental Health Month
Military Appreciation Month
National Chocolate Custard Month
National Day of Prayer
National Defense Transportation Day
National Egg Month
National Foster Care Month
National Good Car Keeping Month
National Hamburger Month
National High Blood Pressure Month
National Maritime Day
National Osteoporosis Month
National Pet Month
National Physical Fitness and Sports Month
National Salsa Month
National Share a Story Month
National Strawberry Month
National Stroke Awareness Month
National Transportation Week
National Water Safety Month
Older Americans Month
      Uranus Awareness Month
      World Trade Month

We can celebrate where we were born, how we get around, what we put on our tables for all the celebrating, the state of our health, even our old age. Truly, there’s at least one celebration for everyone.

Who doesn’t love the month of May?
It is the month when we can truly forget winter. Even in the most northern climes the trees are budding and flowers blooming. The month is named for Maia, the Roman goddess of fertility, but we also know that Ovid said the month was named for the maiores, Latin for "elders," and that June is named for the iuniores, or "young people". Perhaps that is why we find Older Americans Month of May’s calendar: not a day, not a week, but the whole month. We can thank John F. Kennedy for that one.

Who doesn’t love the month of May?
Many countries celebrate their national days this month, among them Canada, Chile, Denmark, Ecuador, Eretria, Japan, Lebanon, Mexico, Nepal, Norway, and Poland.  There are saints’ days and religious celebrations for everyone from Buddhists to Pagans. Months, weeks, and day, the list of celebrations, fêtes, commemorations, remembrances, appreciations, and other observances is the longest of the year. Many celebrations are related to a specific date, but a good number of the rest, especially May Day, were probably set in May because it is the loveliest month of the year.







    


   

Friday, April 24, 2015

ARBOR DAY

...and the First Prize is awarded for The Best Use of a Tree
 
Trees Need Not Walk the Earth
                                                                    David Rosenthal
 
Trees need not walk the earth  
For beauty or for bread; 
Beauty will come to them 
Where they stand. 
Here among the children of the sap
Is no pride of ancestry: 
A birch may wear no less the morning 
Than an oak. 
Here are no heirlooms 
Save those of loveliness,
In which each tree 
Is kingly in its heritage of grace. 
Here is but beauty’s wisdom 
In which all trees are wise. 
Trees need not walk the earth
For beauty or for bread; 
Beauty will come to them 
In the rainbow— 
The sunlight— 
And the lilac-haunted rain;
And bread will come to them 
As beauty came: 
In the rainbow— 
In the sunlight— 
In the rain.


This is the fourth Friday of April – Arbor Day. I found this poem when I went looking for something a little less used than Joyce Kilmer’s Trees.  Trees are magnificent things. Aren’t they?  I’m not what you’d call a regular tree hugger, but I have hugged a tree or two in my time, just out of exuberance and a desire to know what it was like to hug a tree.

A trek through the woods in 1992

I remember my oldest granddaughter, Katie, when she was about three years old, staring up at the trees as we walked the trails in our woods. It was a bright, cold day after a snow fall, and the woods were relatively naked.  As she stood and stared up a tree, her grandfather asked her what she was looking at. She replied with a question something like “how come the trees don’t fall over like pencils?”  She didn’t know about roots. That child had, still does have, an inquiring mind.

Inquiring minds want to know.

I really like the trees where we live now. This part of the Carolinas is a transition area, a zone where trees and plants from both northern and southern climates can mix together – everything from maples, oaks, and poplar to pines, pecans, and palmettos.  I recognize old friends, and get to learn more about the trees new to me. 

Not to mention cypress trees and knees





BIRTHDAYS




I read this morning that this is the 200th birthday of the Victorian novelist Anthony Trollope. We readers should really celebrate this because

     He said: “The habit of reading is the only one I know in which there is no alloy. It lasts when all other pleasures fade. It will be there to support you when all other resources are gone. It will be present to you when the energies of your body have fallen away from you. It will make your hours pleasant to you as long as you live.”

For a reader, truer words were never spoken.
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It is also the 73rd birthday of Barbra Streisand. How do I know this? First of all because I know that she was born the same year I was. And because I know the lyrics to her version of I’m Five.  “…I’m five – on April 24th."
So, nu?


It’s also the birthday of Sue Grafton and Robert Penn Warren. Great day for birthdays of all kinds.  And a very merry unbirthday to you.

This was just an impromptu post - Today is also Arbor day, and I've a nice post to post about trees. See you later! 







Monday, April 20, 2015

HOME BODIES

The mailbox on Floreana
 My favorite cousin and his wife just returned from a trip to Peru and the Galapagos Islands, so this BBC Travel article on The World’s Most Charming Mailbox attracted my attention. It’s a wonderful story – be sure to read it.

At the end of the piece, the BBC asked readers to take part in an on-line poll about travel. The first Question was this:
    
How often do you travel internationally?
Select only one
1 to 3 trips/year - The destination matters more than the journey
4 to 6 trips per/year - Home is important, but travel is better!
7 to 10 trips/year - I am on the road more often than not
I'm nomadic. I don't even have a home address!
Votes 8,506


Wow! I would have loved to click on that last option. I can’t even click on the first one. Perhaps if they’d included the option of 4 to 6 trips in your lifetime, I could have gone with that one.  With 8,506 votes at that time, it seems like there are plenty of people who could select one of the options. Lucky ducks.




Friday, April 17, 2015

INTIMATIONS OF IMMORTALITY - MINE

Dragons are immortal - didn't you know that? I say that if you have to
pick a picture of a dragon to illustrate your blog, you should pick a good one.
 This is a good one.


A few weeks ago, one of the daily freebie Kindle books was 1000 Awesome Writing Prompts by Ryan Andrew Kinder. I’ve written about prompt #2, and prompt #7 in last week’s blog. The next one to interest me was prompt #10: “You are given an opportunity for immortality. Do you take it or decline?”  Oooh – I’d take it. I do know that my immortal life could end ‘not with a bang but a whimper’ – a whimper of boredom when everyone else has gone – or in a fiery inferno as our sun dies. But we’re merely speculating here, so the end really doesn’t signify.

I’ve written before how When I Get to Heaven, God is going to have pictures for me to see some of the events I’d like to have seen from the past. Well, living forever, I can look ahead to things I might see in the future. Cars that run on water? Widespread and inexpensive use of solar and wind power? More and more features built into our personal electronic devices? Cures for everything from the common cold to the worst cancers. There has been so much change in the last century that it is a given that there will be more amazing things to come.

I know that unless the extraterrestrials come soon enough and we all band together – the eternal ‘them’ against ‘us’ – this world is going to see a lot more strife. Whereas in not all but much of our previous history, war has been caused by greed and expansionism, most the newer conflicts now seem to be caused by intolerance. Where will it end? When will it end? I’d like to be around to know that.

I’ve read enough fiction about those, like vampires, who’ve lived for hundreds of years, and those like the immortals who’ve been around since it all started. One of my persistent questions, one rarely answered, is how do you keep the mortals from guessing why you’re around so long - just keep changing your address, of course – and how do you hold on to your funds? I suppose you would leave it to yourself under a new name at that new address. I think that, given the proper circumstances, I’d happily deal with these problems. Birth certificates, Social Security numbers, bank accounts? I’d be immortal, I could figure it out.

I do hope that if I do become immortal I will also become a few decades younger. If I stayed at my current age of 72, I’d have to move quite often because folks would become wary of an already-old lady who is about to outlive the neighbors. And I’d want to be in the shape I was in when I was 52, maybe even 42. Yes, as long as I’m writing this piece of speculative fiction, I might as well choose 42. I weigh now what I weighed then, but it has all sagged a bit a lot. Hey, as long as I’m speculating, why not lose even more pounds and be immortal at my ideal weight? I can dream, can’t I? The possibilities, fictionally speaking, are endless. The possibilities are immortal.

Dragons live more than a thousand years - I'd love to have a dragon friend forever.
 A "realio, trulio, little pet dragon."







Friday, April 10, 2015

HOW WERE YOU NAMED?

 A while ago, as I’ve previously blogged, one of the daily freebie Kindle books was 1000 Awesome Writing Prompts by Ryan Andrew Kinder. I posted a blog about what the second prompt prompted in me. Another interesting prompt was this: how were you named?

My father was a musician: pianist, song writer, music librarian. He loved beautiful melodies and he and my mother wanted me to be named for one of his favorites: Aura Lee. (“Aura Lee, Aura Lee, maid with golden hair.” Well, I certainly did have the golden hair.) But the family powers that be objected strenuously, and I remember my mom saying that some folks at that time thought it strange. I suppose it would be the same for parents today who wanted to name their girl Hepsiba or Hermione. My parents thought about it, compromised, and named me Laura Lee.

I’m guessing at this, but I think that my father’s mother had something to do with the name change: her name was Laura. Aura Lee was close, but not close enough, and my grandmother did rule the roost. Being that my grandmother’s name was Laura, and my parents didn’t want to get into the business of “Big Laura” and “Little Laura”, they called me Lee.

Lee is the name I have used most of my life to family, friends and co-workers. I was Lee Lee to my mother, and now only my cousin Bill still remembers that, much to my pleasure. My brother calls me Leebus, and I love that. I remain Laura to doctors, dentists and bankers, and to anyone who doesn’t really know me. I’ll answer to any and all of the above mentioned names.

Interesting note: I was baptized with the name Lawrence. At that time the Roman Catholic Church was very strict about the baptismal names for children, and there was no Saint Laura, much less Lee. Today you can have your child baptized with any name under the sun and the church hardly blinks or questions it at all. My how times have changed.








Saturday, April 4, 2015

A PRESENT TO OPEN AGAIN AND AGAIN

With thanks to Mary Engelbreit

Raise your hands, those of you who know Hans Christian Anderson’s tales.  Raise your hands, those of you who loved the 1952 movie Hans Christian Anderson.  Ah, even more! But the movie was a rather romantic version of his life – it wasn’t all music and dancing children. Anderson, who had only a very basic education, had to start earning his living at a very young age. He found his way into the Royal Danish Theatre, and began his writing there. He considered himself a novelist and a playwright, but he is best known to the world for his tales for children. The Ugly Duckling, Thumbelina, The Emperor’s New Clothes, The Princess and the Pea, are certainly the most popular. This year we celebrate Anderson’s 210th birthday.

Wouldn't it be great to get together this many kids to read? But that position, reading on the floor, was never comfortable for me. I wonder what they're reading.

Because Anderson’s tales, many with morals attached, have both taught and delighted children to this day, the International Board on Books for Young People gives a biennial award to authors and illustrators in his name, and his birthday, April 2, has been designated as International Children’s Book Day.

Books are probably the best gifts grandparents can give to the children in their family. They teach, they amuse, they enthrall, they stir the imagination, they keep the kids occupied and quiet – at least or a short time.  Though many books, especially the classics, are available on line, printed books are probably best. A book is a present that can be opened again and again. I am “the book Grandma.” My granddaughters expect them. One year I had one of my younger granddaughters giving me curious looks when I presented her with a large, wrapped box for her birthday. She thought I had given up on the books – but no! I’d pulled a little trick on her: the box was full of books, and she was very relieved.

This is my great-granddaughter, investigating some of the books I gave to her mother yeeeears ago.

Start even the littlest ones with books. Before you blink, before you even realize it, they’ll be grown and will have a large book collection to pass on. This last thing I know for a fact: my oldest granddaughter is now a mother.  She has all the books we’ve given her over at least two decades. Her daughter’s collection is well started. Actual books, once they’ve been read, can sit on a shelf. As a child passes the shelf, or as he searches through the collection, certain books will ‘register’. Whole stories will flit through his mind to be appreciated, perhaps subconsciously, again and again.



C.S. Lewis, the author of The Chronicles of Narnia, a set of books that should be in every child’s library, once said “Someday you will be old enough to start reading fairy tales again.”



Wednesday, April 1, 2015

APRIL



April
In April I will go away
To far off Spain or old Bombay
And dream about hot soup all day.
Oh, my, oh, once, oh, my, oh, twice
Oh, my, oh, chicken soup with rice.

Yes, today is April Fool's Day. No fooling today, but if you would like to read something silly, NASA has this for you. If you would like to read something serene, The Writer's Almanac has a bit of Keats for you. While you're there, you can read about one of my favorite authors, Anne McCaffrey, the inventor of Zen Hugs. I'd really love to be going away to Spain or old Bombay, or any place else for that matter. A trip in the lovely month of April is just what everywinter-weary soul needs.