A while ago I read a bit of news about apple
thieves. The piece, from Atlas Obscura, told of a gal,
driving a Mercedes which indicates her level of income, who was caught by the
police after she pilfered a bag’s worth of apples from a Massachusetts orchard.
Why do folks think such road-side produce is
theirs for the taking? Like Massachusetts, New York is big orchard and farm
country. Nothing like the vast acres of fields further west, but important none
the less. When we lived in upstate New York, a local farmer planted a field of
field corn, feed for livestock, by the end of our dirt road. He, probably like
many other farmers, had to plant sweet corn in the first few rows surrounding
the field. If he didn’t do this, thieves who didn’t like the feed corn would
trash the field. Go figure.
The piece included this bit:
When someone at
his farm catches a thief they almost always plead ignorance. “Oh, I didn’t know
they were somebody’s apples,” he says they tell him. His response? “Well that’s
kind of stupid.”
Stupid? It’s
downright self-serving. We passed that corn field each growing season for
twenty years, and never even thought to take an ear or two. That gal didn’t
just wander down that road by chance: she’d probably gone by several times. She,
like others of her mind set, knew it was an orchard, not just a lone old apple
tree still putting out fruit in an abandoned field by the side of the road.
Each time I
hear a story like this one I am appalled and annoyed all over again. What are
these people thinking? Then I just calm down and realize once again that this
is the way a lot of the world works. It’s the way the world has been working
more and more of late. Every Tom, Dick and Harry, every radical group, thinks
it’s entitled. It stinks!
I agree with you completely! Where did this feeling of entitlement come from, I wonder? I didn't grow up that way, and obviously neither did you. Who would teach their children that it doesn't matter what the consequences of their actions are to other people, as long as "I" get "mine"? And that stealing is okay if you want something?
ReplyDeleteI think it might very well be a direct outcome of the independence that has been so revered in North American society. "Me" and "mine" become the only real, important things--and sometimes its just "me." Independence and self-reliance have somehow morphed into into self-indulgence and a lack of true empathy for others, and we are seeing the fruits of that societal change every day.
I believe that sooner or later, each of us reaps what we sow. And that belief isn't just the province of Christianity. In Buddhism, it's called karma.